Should Caroline Have Told Stefan About Damon and Elena?
I think no b/c she needs it to stay out of it, she broke Elena's promise, and what goes on b/w Delena is none of Caroline+Stefan's business.
I think that, while it wasn't her business, her intentions were good. Caroline knows that Damon isn't the best guy and that he has a tendency to flip flop between good and evil so I think she was just trying to help her best friend.
Agreed with Maria. (I'm sure you must be a Delena shipper)
Technically, Stefan is her friend too & she was helping him out. There's not anything "bad" in that.
And at the end, Carena has made up & are back together as being friend.
Okay as much as I love Caroline, what gives her the right to get involved in Elena's love life? Elena+Bonnie have never gotten involved in her love life...not that I can think of...
But the thing is she broke a promise to her best friend whom she's known about her whole life...She hasn't known Stefan her whole life and she's choosing him over Elena! Elena said she would tell Stefan and what does Caroline do? Now who really seems in the wrong here?
If I recall correctly, Elena didn't approve of her and Damon when they were "together" either.
I agree with Cori11. Caroline broke two promisses she made to Elena: that she would not be judgy and that she would let Elena tell on her own time. It was low and catty.
She was not looking after her best friend - if she was she should have called Elena and asked what was going on, instead of ratting it to Stefan. What she did will just draw Stefan further away from Elena - not in any way bring them closer.
Stefan is now angry at Damon, Elena will be angry at Stefan and angry with Caroline.
So Caroline did not act in Stelena's best interest at all.
Maria Trimble , it was ages ago - when she still thought Damon was out to hurt Stefan. Now we know Damon better, know he cares and misses his little brother, saw how much he sacrificed to bring Stefan back to Elena in Season 3. There is just no comparison.
Why do people keep bringing Season 1 Damon when they need to justify he is no good for Elena? Because recently Damon has been well behaved, romantic, sensible and frankly the more grounded and centered of the two brothers. There is nothing he has done recently to "not deserve Elena" - so people have to fish all the way back to season 1 when he was apparently deranged. Grow up! Damon did!
I'm not saying that this is what I believe because I don't. I'm saying that this is what Caroline believes. Just because WE see a side of Damon, doesn't mean that the other characters do. Think about it; when Damon does something selfless, Caroline isn't usually there. She doesn't really see the things that Damon does. It doesn't help that Damon never apologized to Caroline for the things he's done to her (and not just the things from Season 1). To Caroline, Damon is just some jerk who feels no remorse for any of the completely heartless things he's done to her and others.
Caroline is fully justified to think Damon is a creep, but she promissed Elena she would not judge and let Elena tell Stefan in her own time.
Tia Serena, thank you.
And Maria Trimble, yeah just because we see a side of Damon, doesn't mean that the other characters do.
But the problem for me with Caroline is that she keeps hanging onto the past. She keeps talking about how Damon is never right, he's rude, and whatever else. And that person is Season 1 Damon. Let it go! She knows that Damon has changed. Like she has the nerve to say bad things about Damon in front of Elena but won't say it front of Stefan? Wow. How can she defend somebody she doesn't even know? The Stefan she knows is not the real Stefan. "Say what you want about Ripper Stefan." Sure, she hasn't even seen Ripper Stefan whom is the Real Stefan.
If she would take the time to talk to Damon and he would apologize to her...
I don't care if she hates Damon. She needs to respect Elena's decision and stop judging her, stay out of her love life. b/c during 4x07 to 4x08, I thought it was Stefan making things worst in the love triangle, but I was wrong, it was Caroline!
She needs to worry about her own love life which is Tyler vs Klaus.
What do you think?