i can already see that elena will not be with damon anymore cause he made her turn off her humanity. the moment when she realises what happened ( she turns on her humanity) she will start a fight with damon how could he do that to her, why couldn't he just let her go to mourn her own brother, he's not supposed to make desicions instead of her etc. i mean, i was for delena from the beginning, but we all know that this will end up so that elena and stefan are back together and damon will find "new love". sadly, but all great stories end up like this. that's why i'm not planing to watch the next season... i waited for 3 fucking seasons delena to happen, and when it finally does, there HAS to be a sire bond, ofc -.- they couldn't leave it a normal love between 2 persons. noooo..
i think the sire bond is making her feel way to much emotions for him but when he made her turn her humanity off it was way to far i8 am stelena all the way
Think about it like this, and this is mostly the truth so don't go bashing me for preaching the truth.
When Elena was human, she chose Stefan. She loves Stefan and the SECOND she turns into a vampire, she loves Damon. Don't get me wrong, i'm not gonna denie it, she cared for Damon when she was human. The reason Elena is "so in love" with Damon now is BECAUSE of the sire bond. I know what your going to say "the sire bond doesn't effect feelings" but I don't think thats it. All Damon ever wanted was for Elena to choose him and to love him, because that would make him happy. Damon wants Elena to love him so she does.
Sorry DE fans, that is just my opinion.
Maybe its the wickedness in me- but why should she settle for just one? Two hot guys - no waiting! Go Elena!
I have agreed and have been frustrated most of this season minus 4x7. They even needed to steal a moment away from Delena after she told him that she loved him. Next episode was like it never happened. Over and over disappointment! And why make Damon always the bad guy when he's right over and over. Arg!
This dynamic reminds me so much of the Buffy/Angel/Spike triangle. Spike sacrifices everything he is for the love of Buffy, even going so far to nearly kill himself in a trial to have his soul restored for her so that he can be a 'better man' and be worthy of her love. He sacrifices himself over and over, but Buffy always chooses Angel, despite the fact that Angel was the worst vampire in the history of vampires, and despite the fact that he killed and tortured Buffy's friends as 'Angelus', in front of her, killing her Watcher's girlfriend, Jenny, torturing her watcher, Giles, for fun, and threatening to kill Willow, by killing her pets, first. This is similar to Stefan becoming the Ripper in front of Elena- Damon may have done despicable stuff too- but he IS capable of doing noble things- as is Stefan. I cannot see much difference between Damon and Stefan in the 'evil vampire' stakes, myself. I just think that Damon and Helena are a more honest relationship. He sees her desires, he SEES her, and not just what he wants her to be.
In the end, Buffy admits 'feelings' for Spike, they enjoy a passionate, sexy and torid romance, but she opts for Angel, saying that she wants Spike, but it is Angel she truly loves. I can see the same scenario playing out again in the Vampire Diaries, and when it does, I will scream at the TV in frusration. Why can't 'the bad boy' get the girl?
Gottarhyme, I feel EXACTLY like you, about the Buffy/Angel/Spike triangle and the TVD triangle. I hate it that the bad boy never wins (and we all know that the whole bad boy thing is a facade cause they are soft hearted). /hat off for you.
Hope nobody feels offended, I adore Stefan, but IMHO, he lacks the passion Damon has.
@Scarlett22- I agree, Stefan and Elena lack passion and chemistry. They may have a nice little romance going, but as Elena says. "i'm only 17- I don't know what I feel", (paraphrased)- I think Elena is far too young to have an 'epic' love affair for eternity with a 145 year old man- no matter what THAT man feels.
My own parents married at 16 and 18, and were together for thirty years before their 'epic' romance failed as they both became attracted to other people. Love, passion, and dreaming of a white picket fence with children in the yard are all seperate things, in my view. Stefan has selfish reasons for wanting Elena human, he wants her to be the way she was before, loving him and 'trusting his judgement', which I feel is a bit patronising. Damon can not be that selfish with her, as he keeps saying- Where Elena is concerned, he does not want her to be a tame thing. He wants her to have the best in life, and if she chooses Stefan, that is what he is willing to accept.
Damon's sacrifice is always going to be greater than Stefan's in that regard. Damon can offer a life of eternal passion to Elena as a vampire, but as a human, he cannot. Realistically, either can Stefan, but I think Stefan is happy to keep her human to better be able to control her.
For goodness sakes, Elena says she wants children. Is Stefan going to let her have a healthy relationship with a normal man while he hovers in the back ground to allow that? What about when she ages and dies? Or will Elena have another doppleganger so the whole creepy thing begins again?
What do you think?