I really hope that in the season 4 finale Elena chooses Damon because Stefan and Elena already had their chance to be together. Stefan and Elena were already in a happy committed relationship and they broke up in every single season there has to come a time when the writers of the show need to let go of that relationship. The writers have only given the Elena/ Stefan what they wanted and completely ignored the Elena/ Damon fans and what they want. The one time Elena did choose Damon they were only happy for like 5 minutes before they found out it was the result of a sire bond. I really want Elena to choose Damon. Elena and Stefan do not need to be together to be in each others lives.