Lets get this straight i'm a huge Stefan fan. As I look back to season 1 he came into a girls life who needed someone to confort,support,and love her the way that he did. He built a strong undeniable love,bond, and chemistry with Elena and she fell for him almost instantly. Season 1 was one of my favorites because it gave a plot to an absolutley epic love story. Season 2, my favorite season personally, comes along and Stefan and Elena go through a lot of adversities such as Katherine and what not. I think the love bond became even stronger as they fought through so much with eachother. At the end of Season 2, Stefan gives himself up to Klaus for the cure of a werewolf bite for his brother Damon. Season 3 arrives and Stefan goes through his ripper stage while Damon and Elena are trying to fix all the situations that have happened and in doing so they became closer. At the of the season Elena decides on Stefan..."no matter what I feel for you, I never unfell for him" is what Elena told Damon. Season 4 is where it all comes apart for Stefan and Elena's love story. She is now a vampire dealing with a sirebond and her emotions being altered. Elena talks about how Stefan wants to fix her all the time and that she was an expirement, what kind of man would Stefan be if he didn't try to fight for the relationship he had with Elena? Stefan did everything to get that relationship back even fighting for the cure so Elena had the choice of being a vampire or not even through him knowing about Elena sleeping with Damon. I know I know in the show Stefan said he wasn't just trying to find the cure for Elena but it was what he wanted for himself also, but in the finale Stefan said the reason he fought for that cure was because of the woman he loved,Elena. The scene in the Season 4 finale where Elena chose Damon and Stefan was sitting on the couch absolutely heart broken was sad to watch. He is now left sitting at the bottom of quarry drowning,heart broken and asking himself "what did I do wrong"? with his relationship with Elena. So what did he do wrong? It kinda doesn't make since to me how such a strong relationship was broken up for a more "exciting" relationship. I have the upmost respect for all opinions and don't mean to offend Delena shippers because I respect them as much as any other opinions. I just want to know what did Stefan do wrong to get what he got through the whole Season 4?