Ever since the destiny doppleganger crap was used I feel even more die hard Delena because in my mind it's cheesy and unoriginal and completely ruins Stelena as a genuine couple because it's like their not together because want to be but because they are suppose to be.
The destiny thing also makes Stelena feel like a bad rerun now that we know about the Doppleganger Destiny schtick. I mean seriously I feel like maybe Stefan was supposed to be with Kat and Damon is supposed to be with Elena but because of the vampire thing allowling two dopplegangers to exist at once it's thrown the threads of destiny out of wack.
That's my view but doesn't affect Silas because he already knows who his soul mate is. The point is Stelena for me feels less real and more forced now. Delena feels more real because it goes against destiny and is a conscious choice for the two characters.