So I’m rewatching the series (again) and I’ve just gotten to the start of Season 3 and in my honest opinion (don’t come at me) but I think Jenna’s death was sadder than Stefan’s by quite a lot. To me Stefan’s was not sad at all and yet Jenna’s had me bawling. I think Stefan’s death was noble and I respect him for what he did but his death just wasn’t all that sad. I think his death was and the bottom of the sadness scale for me.