Hey Jeremy, it's Bonnie! It's a really long story but I'm back. Uh, I had this whole plan to drive out to New Mexico and surprise you...I don't know, show up as one of the models in your drawing class or something. Listen Jer, I'm not sure I'm still the same Bonnie you want to be with. That place changed me and I don't know if I'm scared of myself or if I actually kinda like the new me. If it's okay with you, I think I'm just gonna figure me out and then I promise to come visit you. I hope you're well. Okay, bye Jer.

This is the on and off romantic relationship between the Supernatural Hunter, Jeremy Gilbert, and the witch, Bonnie Bennett. Jeremy and Bonnie grew up together in Mystic Falls. Jeremy's sister, Elena is Bonnie's best friend.  Their relationship began over the course of season two, but was halted when Jeremy was caught kissing Anna, his ex-girlfriend. The relationship started to grow close again during season four ending with Bonnie bringing Jeremy back from the dead and dying in the process. Season Five found the relationship between the two even more complicated with Bonnie being dead and unable to physically connect with Jeremy. The witch Qetsiyah made Bonnie the Anchor to the Other Side, allowing Bonnie to be in both places at once. Bonnie and Jeremy were able to declare their love for each other and finally consummate their relationship. Their relationship quietly grew even with outside threats and seemed to be on the right path until the Other Side started to collapse. The season ended with the Other Side being destroyed and Bonnie being engulfed in white light and presumed to be gone forever, leaving Jeremy devastated. Later on, the Mystic Falls Gang discover that Damon and Bonnie aren't lost forever and one by one, they both come back. However, Jeremy turned to liquor after Bonnie's "death." After he saved her life in the Prison World, they parted on good terms despite them not being able to speak to each other; Bonnie wanted him to move on with his life, so he did. It is later said by Enzo that she is a lovelorn witch, possibly referring to her awkward relationship status with Jeremy or he does not have romantic feelings for her anymore. Either way, Bonnie currently moved on from Jeremy romantically and was in a relationship with Enzo before his death.

These two are referred to as "Beremy" by fans.

Throughout The Vampire Diaries Series

In The Night of the Comet, after Vicki went missing, Jeremy, Bonnie, Matt, Caroline, Tyler and  Elena discussed the different locations that they could look for her.  

Bonnie and Jeremy at the Salvatore House

In Masquerade, when Bonnie goes to the Salvatore Boarding House, Bonnie comes inside with the Grimoire in her hands. Jeremy is also there and tells Bonnie: "We're gonna kill Katherine", which Stefan confirms. At the Salvatore Boarding House are Alaric Saltzman, Stefan Salvatore, Damon Salvatore, Jeremy, Caroline and Bonnie who are getting ready to go through with their plan. Alaric asks if the others really don't want him to be at the Masquerade Ball, and Stefan says: "No. I need you to stay with Elena, I don't want her to know about this." Alaric promises he'll look after her. When Stefan asks if anyone wants to back out, no one wants to. It takes Bonnie the longest to reply, but she says she's with them, as long as nobody gets hurt (except Katherine).

Jeremy makes the first look

At the Masquerade Ball, Jeremy is seen going upstairs with a bag in his hand, followed by Bonnie. They enter a room. Jeremy opens the bag and they take out weapons and the Grimoire. Bonnie explains the spell to Jeremy. She says she's only tried stuff that does good. She doesn't really want to be a part of all of this. When Jeremy says being a witch must be cool, Bonnie says it's anything but that because of what she knows about what happened to her witch ancestors: "It never ends well for people like me." She says she only helps because she doesn't want anyone else to get hurt and that she doesn't know how to stay out of it. Jeremy and Bonnie want to tell Stefan the room is ready, but on their way, Bonnie feels something and walks over to Lucy and asks her if they know each other. Lucy says No and leaves. "Are you okay?" asks Jeremy and Bonnie answers: "Just got a weird vibe. Let's find Damon." 


Jeremy and Bonnie are outside and Jeremy asks her random stuff about what she can do. He asks her to dance while they are waiting, and Bonnie says "No!", like it is a crazy idea. Jeremy looks a little hurt, and Bonnie says: "I mean... no, thank you." Jeremy's phone rings. He received a message from Damon, saying: "Now." They look at each other and Jeremy stands up. Jeremy and Bonnie see that Elena's in pain then Bonnie does a spell to take some pain away from her friend. Jeremy comes back to Bonnie and Elena and tells them Katherine had a witch on her side. Bonnie realizes it's Lucy, the mystery woman she got the vibe from, and runs away to find her. Jeremy walks over to her, saying he's going home and offers her a ride. She sees her face and asks if she's OK. She nods and asks him when he got his driver's license. Jeremy laughs and tells him another.

Jeremy and Bonnie are talking

In Rose, Stefan and Jeremy ask Bonnie for help to locate Elena. Using Jeremy's blood and a spell, Bonnie is able to locate Elena, 300 miles away. Bonnie stays at the Gilbert house with Jeremy. She does another spell that draws a lot of energy from her which makes her pass out and that's frightens Jeremy. When Bonnie wakes up, Jeremy offers her a glass of water and Bonnie tells Jeremy that witches also have weaknesses. Jeremy lets Bonnie sleep on his bed because she is exhausted. When Elena finally arrives home Bonnie and Jeremy give her a massive hug.

Bonnie and Jeremy are having a good laugh

In Katerina, Bonnie walks and drops her books outside the school parking lot. Jeremy helps her pick them up and then asks her if she wanted to play billiard at the Grill. Bonnie agrees and then a new guy asks them if they know where the office is. Jeremy introduced Bonnie and himself to the new kid who is named Luka. Bonnie and Jeremy meet Luka, Jeremy ends up taking Luka up to the office. Bonnie steps into the grill but she can't find Jeremy. Luka and Jonas (Luka's dad) ask Bonnie if she will join them. Jeremy comes over to Bonnie, Luka and Jonas and escorts Bonnie to the Billiard table and they start playing pool. Bonnie then finds out that Luka's a warlock (a male witch) and Jeremy is jealous of Bonnie's attraction to Luka. Jeremy leaves the Mystic Grill.

Bonnie and Jeremy

In The Sacrifice, Jeremy is seen with Stefan, Damon and Bonnie who are preparing to take the moonstone from Katherine. Bonnie takes a picture that belongs to Katherine and turns it to ash so they can blow the ash on Katherine which will knock her out for a minute or so. When Jeremy realizes that Bonnie is going to try and release the spell over the tomb that is holding Katherine, he becomes worried and tells Bonnie she could get hurt because she is not strong enough. Bonnie insists that she will be okay, but Jeremy takes some of the ash behind Bonnie's back and goes to the tomb alone. Jeremy tries to get the moonstone out of the tomb, but Katherine stops him before he can leave, and bites him on the neck so she can feed. Bonnie and Stefan appear and find Jeremy being held captive by Katherine.

Jeremy confesses his feelings for Bonnie

Bonnie attempts to lower the barrier over the tomb, but passes out again. Katherine attempts to feed on Jeremy again, and Stefan rushes into the tomb to save him, and gets trapped himself. Jeremy heads home with Bonnie and the two start arguing. Bonnie asks Jeremy why he had to get involved. Jeremy said that he wanted to protect her. Bonnie says that Jeremy can't feel that way about her. Jeremy attempts to kiss Bonnie, but she says that she can't. Bonnie then goes out the back door of the house leaving Jeremy alone. Bonnie rejected him because she wants to keep him safe.

Jeremy and Bonnie

In By the Light of the Moon, it still shows that Jeremy has still strong feelings for Bonnie after he tried to kiss her. Jeremy comes in as Bonnie says she needs some coffee and she places the moonstone in her bag before leaving. Jeremy asks Elena why she's on some suicide mission. With nobody around, Elena takes the moonstone and heads downstairs, telling Bonnie she's going to visit Stefan. Bonnie blocks her, as Jeremy says the moonstone's gone. Elena reminds her Klaus is coming and she can't allow him to harm her family and friends. Elena finds her front door has been blocked by a seal. Bonnie tells her it's for the best. Jeremy gives Bonnie a huge smile because their plan worked.

Jeremy and Bonnie

In Daddy Issues, At Recent Victims Memorial Jeremy sees Bonnie talking with Jonas Martin which seems to be upsetting her, he comes up and interrupts their conversation and walks away with her. Later he is seen at Mystic Grill restaurant with Bonnie having a good time.

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In Crying Wolf, not trusting the Martin Warlocks, Bonnie seeks the help of Caroline and Jeremy. In the Grill Jeremy starts talking to Caroline. "She's giving him the sex smile" - Caroline, "Alright Caroline, I get it." - Jeremy. Jeremy is shown to be jealous about Bonnie and Luka and Caroline can see the way Jeremy feels about Bonnie. After Bonnie has done a powerful spell on Luka, Jeremy rushes over to take Luka back to Caroline's house. When they get in to Caroline's house, they find candles so Bonnie can do the spell. When Caroline was going to get the matches, Bonnie lit the candles then Caroline said "Come on that's pretty hot" Bonnie asks Jeremy if he could get her a bowl of water, then Caroline pushes out Bonnie's feelings for Jeremy.

Jeremy and Bonnie kiss

When Bonnie is asking questions for Luka, he brings up the Sacrifice of Elena and Jeremy just says "No" and shakes his head. When Caroline is taking Luka back to the Mystic Grill, Bonnie and Jeremy are left in the house by themselves and all of Bonnie's feelings for Jeremy start to come pouring out. Bonnie says she known him forever through the good and the bad times. She also says "And over night you turned into this hot guy who's really sweet an -" but then gets interrupted by Jeremy saying "You think I'm hot?". Then the two share a very passionate kiss.

Jeremy and Bonnie hanging out

In The Dinner Party, after the kiss, there was initially an awkward tension between the two. Jeremy was upset that Bonnie didn't say anything about their kiss last night. Luka approached, furious, and Jeremy defended Bonnie, telling him to back off. Later on, Bonnie went to the Gilbert House to practice a spell, but then when she walked into the house, there were several candles lit. They practiced a spell with fire, and Jeremy was curious if she could practice on him because the human body is mostly water. Bonnie put her hand on Jeremy's chest, absorbing his energy. However, Jonas interrupted and stole Bonnie's powers while Jeremy was put up against a wall by his powers. Jonas threatened Bonnie then leaves the house. Shaken, Bonnie cried while Jeremy consoled her.

Jeremy and Bonnie share a moment

In The House Guest, Stefan goes to see Bonnie and Jeremy , and informs them that Katherine is back. He asks them to speak to Luka and Jonas to see if they can work together. When he has gone, Jeremy tries to kiss Bonnie, but she is reluctant. She promises to tell Elena about their romance soon. Later on, Bonnie asks Elen if she could start dating Jeremy and Elena says yes. Bonnie admits that she feels bad that Luka died but Jeremy says that he doesn't. Bonnie adds that she hated not being able to help. Then upstairs, Jeremy admits that he is worried about Bonnie because the only witch who could have given her back her powers is dead. However, Bonnie reveals that when Jonas grabbed her, he returned her powers. She adds that Jonas wants her to kill Klaus and Jeremy replies: "Did he include a how?" Bonnie reveals that he did. Then she kisses him.

Jeremy and Bonnie kiss

Bonnie and Jeremy fight

In Know Thy Enemy, Bonnie, Jeremy and Damon go to a place where Bonnie can harness her ancestors powers. And when she's in pain, Jeremy is there with her. Bonnie works with Jeremy and Damon in order to find the spell they will need to gather the power of the witches killed in the massacre. Bonnie and Jeremy are at Elena's house when Jeremy reads the warning the witches gave to Bonnie and is incredibly upset because if Bonnie uses too much power she will die. He asks her how much power she will need to kill an Original and Bonnie tells him that she needs all of it. She tells him that if she dies it was to save Elena , him, and everybody else.

Bonnie and Jeremy outside of the school

In The Last Dance at lunch, Bonnie bans Jeremy from telling Elena that killing Klaus would kill her as well. She insists that she will go through with it. Elena arrives and Jeremy storms off angrily. Outside, Jeremy hands Bonnie his ring to protect her but Bonnie points out that it won't work because she is supernatural herself. She tells him that the witches' warning doesn't mean she will die. Jeremy points out that he doesn't have much luck with girlfriends, but Bonnie tells him that she feels strong and can do this.

Bonnie and Jeremy dancing

Inside Bonnie and Jeremy dance with each other. When Bonnie fakes her death, Elena says "No. Jeremy. Oh, my God, Jeremy. What about Jeremy?" Damon tells Stefan to get Elena home now and says he will find Jeremy. Later, Damon puts Bonnie's body in his car and Jeremy approaches, asking where Bonnie is. Damon explains that they need to talk. Meanwhile, Jeremy goes to visit Bonnie's body in a tomb surrounded by candles. Bonnie suddenly wakes up and Jeremy hugs her. Back in the tomb, Bonnie explains that she is sure she is safe there. Jeremy produces a laptop and wireless internet which he calls Mi-Fi and sets it up so that Bonnie can talk to Elena over a webcam. Bonnie sobs that she is sorry as she didn't have time to tell her what was happening, but Elena forgives her and says she just needed to see Bonnie's face to know she is okay.

Jeremy and Bonnie talk about magic

In The Sun Also Rises, Over at the old witches' house, Jeremy and Bonnie look through the Grimoires to find a way of stopping Elena becoming a vampire. Meanwhile, Elijah, Alaric and Stefan arrive to speak to Bonnie. Elijah explains that the sacrifice will happen in stages - the werewolf will be killed, then the vampire, and then the doppelgänger. He says that once Elena dies, the curse will be broken and Klaus will become a hybrid. However, this will also be when Klaus is weakest and Bonnie will be able to deliver him to the brink of death. Elijah says he will finish the job. Inside, Jeremy reveals that he thinks he's found a spell that might help and decides to ask Stefan to bring Johnathan Gilbert's journals for more information. Alaric appears and asks to speak to Jeremy alone. He explains that Jenna has been taken. Upstairs, Bonnie is willing to kill Klaus now to save Jenna, even though it would mean killing herself. However, Stefan refuses and explains that he has a plan - he will offer himself as the vampire instead.

Bonnie and Jeremy kiss

Later, Bonnie and John explain that they have a spell that could save Elena. John explains that in Johnathan Gilbert's time, a woman had a sick baby but bound her life force with the child's. When the child died, the mother's life flowed through her and restored the baby's life. John explains that he will not let Elena become the thing he spent his life protecting her against. Bonnie casts the spell on John and Damon, Bonnie and Elijah leave for the sacrifice. Jeremy wants to accompany them, but Bonnie kisses him and casts a spell to make him pass out. Meanwhile, Alaric is furious when he discovers that he is unable to leave the house because of another spell Bonnie has performed to keep him safe. At the funeral you see Bonnie and Jeremy together.

Bonnie cries over Jeremy's lifeless body

In As I Lay Dying, you see Jeremy who is at the Gone With The Wind screening with Bonnie and Caroline. Jeremy admits that Elena went to see Damon and Alaric warns that he's in bad shape and the cops are after him. He advises Jeremy to get Elena somewhere safe if he finds her. Bonnie tells Jeremy to wait behind, but Jeremy refuses, saying that for once they can't stop him from getting involved. Liz arrives and shoots at Damon, but he rushes off quickly and the bullet hits Jeremy. Liz is shocked and, at that moment, Caroline and Bonnie arrive. Bonnie points out that Jeremy's ring won't work because he was hurt by a human, not a supernatural creature. Caroline feeds Jeremy her blood - much to her mother's shock - but it doesn't work. Bonnie realizes that she knows what to do and takes him away with Alaric, who has just arrived.

Bonnie tries to revive Jeremy

Alaric and Bonnie take Jeremy to the witches' house and Bonnie tries to use the power of the old witches to revive Jeremy. She casts a spell but begins to worry as the other witches are angry at her for returning and don't want to help. She says there will be consequences, and Alaric tells her to get them to shut up as Jeremy is just a kid. Bonnie continues to cast the spell but her nose begins to bleed and she sobs. She calls to Emily, begging her to help as she loves Jeremy. However, the candles go out and Bonnie sobs as she believes Jeremy is dead for good, but then he wakes up. Bonnie hugs him and thanks Emily for helping.

Jeremy and Bonnie talk on webcam

Jeremy returns home and searches on the internet for "back from the dead". Bonnie speaks to him on webcam and he admits that he feels weird, but Bonnie points out that he has just been brought back from the dead and it's bound to feel strange. She jokes that he can thank her "tomorrow and the day after that and the day after that.." They say good night and Alaric appears, explaining that he's going to head off. However, seeing how Jeremy looks, he decides to stay the night. Jeremy thanks him for everything he has done. However, Alaric teases Jeremy by revealing that he overheard Bonnie's suggestion that he thanks her "tomorrow and the day after that and the day after that.."

In The Birthday at the Mystic Grill, we find out that Bonnie is away with family, but is in touch with Jeremy on the phone.

Bonnie and Jeremy reunited

In Disturbing Behavior, Bonnie returns home and she and Jeremy share a hug and a kiss. Later on, they are in Jeremy's room looking through her Grimoires looking for anything that mentions Elena's necklace. Jeremy asks why she can't use the dead witches Bonnie was channeling to help. She admits that they cut her off after she brought Jeremy back to life. He tells her she doesn't need to apologize. She tells him that Elena told her Jeremy was having a rough time since then. He lies and tells her he is fine. Anna shows up and tells Jeremy the darkness is here. The Grimoires light on fire, but Bonnie puts them out. Anna shows up later and tells Jeremy that she thinks that he hasn't told Bonnie because he doesn't want her to know he still cares for Anna. To prove it's not true, he shuts Anna out and he tells Bonnie the truth.

Jeremy tells Bonnie about seeing Anna and Vicki

In The Reckoning, Bonnie and Matt try and find Jeremy to help try and contact the wlder witch. When Damon talks to Jeremy about having lots of phone calls of Bonnie, Jeremy tries to get the phone of Damon to check his messages but Damon keeps the phone.

"I get it, Jeremy. But put yourself in my shoes. You loved both of them. And you guys didn't break up. They died. And you keep letting them back in."

In Smells Like Teen Spirit, When Bonnie sees Jeremy she's rather frosty and asks him to see her view. After all, he has the power to ignore Anna and Vicki if he wants. Elsewhere, Bonnie's furious that Jeremy talked to Anna about the whole Vicki fiasco, especially as a witch is involved. Anna doesn't help matters by turning up and when Jeremy tells her: "Not now", Bonnie is even angrier. She decides to go and deal with the real problem - Matt resurrecting Vicki. Bonnie isn't speaking to Jeremy because she's mad about his relationship with Anna.

"Matt let go of a sister before you let go of Anna. His sister, Jeremy. You know what you owe me? The respect of not making me listen to you explain yourself."

In Ghost World, Anna and Jeremy are caught kissing by Elena. She tells Caroline, but warns her not to tell Bonnie. Caroline tells Bonnie anyway and Bonnie is surprised. Elena warns Anna to stay away and "evaporate" which causes her to disappear. Jeremy is angry and tells her he didn't know how it happened. Later in the episode while they are looking for the necklace, Elena accuses Anna of taking it, but Jeremy sides with her. It is later revealed that she did take the necklace after Elena tells Jeremy that she is holding him back. Anna explains to Jeremy why she took. She says to him that she can`t find her mother and was wondering if maybe she can try to find and that she doesn't want to be alone anymore. Jeremy hugs Anna and tells her it`s gonna be okay. Jeremy gives Bonnie the necklace at the witch house. Jeremy attempts to explain himself, but his efforts are useless and Bonnie tells him to leave. This leaves their relationship unknown.

In Homecoming, Bonnie tells Elena that she can't talk to her about her relationship with Jeremy because he is Elena's brother and it wouldn't be fair.

Bonnie goes to see Jeremy and says goodbye before he leaves to go to Denver

In Our Town, Elena tells Bonnie that she got Damon to compel Jeremy to leave town. She at first accepts this decision, as it is not safe for him anymore. She goes to talk to him, but she is upset when he says he didn't know she cared about him anymore, which she replies she cares, she's only heartbroken for what happened with Anna, but she never wants him to leave. Later that night, during Caroline's funeral party, she expresses her true feelings about the matter. She is disturbed by Elena's behavior, taking away his choices of how he wants to live his life. She leaves to sleep it off. Next morning she shows at Elena's porch, and she says she came to say goodbye to Jeremy. They hug, and Jeremy leaves to go to Denver.


In The Murder of One, Klaus blackmails Bonnie into helping him with a spell to break the Original's bond together or he would make Kol hurt Jeremy. Bonnie eventually succumbs and helps him, showing that she still cares for Jeremy.

In Before Sunset, Bonnie does a spell to stop Jeremy's heart, so that Stefan, Damon and Klaus can desiccate Alaric's heart.

Jeremy watch Bonnie making a spell to help Elena

In Growing Pains, Jeremy is upset at the thought of Elena becoming a vampire, and asks her if she's started showing any physical signs of the transition yet. He also fully supports the idea of Bonnie tapping into dark magic to try to bring Elena back from the other side and restore her human self. He is with her when she attempts the dangerous move of crossing over to the other side to try to bring Elena back -- he tries to wake her up, when he is finally successful, she informs him that her attempts had failed.

Bonnie help Jeremy

In O Come, All Ye Faithful, Bonnie went to the Gilbert Family Lake House with Jeremy to help him control his urge to kill vampires and his sister Elena. When Elena and Damon arrive, Jeremy looked at them a bit angrily, but Bonnie comes from behind him and asks him if he trusts her touching his hand as he holds a axe and he says he does and let's go of the potential weapon and Bonnie takes him inside. Bonnie was left in shock when Elena was invited in by Jeremy, but than almost killed by him. Later, Shane was helping Jeremy to not want to kill Elena by trying to create a detour where he acknowledges in his conscious that he loves and wants to protect Elena which would prevent his subconscious side that wants to kill her to come out and Bonnie was with them. When Elena tried to tell Jeremy about the nice things they had it didn't work because he said he wanted to kill Elena. Later, Bonnie went to tell Jeremy that Shane wanted to try again, but Damon said that he needed to find someone that wasn't a vampire to attach his detour warm and fuzzy feelings to and Jeremy chose Bonnie as someone he loves and wants to protect. She was later seen when Caroline called her to ask her if the plan to put Klaus' in Rebekah's body would work, and she said that it should. She told Caroline that Elena was there with Damon, leaving her shocked and she hung up on Bonnie.

Jeremy Elena and Bonnie are checking a old box with christmas decorations.

After Bonnie was helping Jeremy, she went with him to talk to Elena, and she told Elena not to move, despite Jeremy having a wooden weapon in his arm Jeremy looked at Bonnie and chose the right path like Shane told him to and he gives the stake to Damon. Jeremy hugged Elena, meaning that Bonnie was successful with her help. She was later seen with Jeremy and Elena seeing the Christmas decorations that Elena and Jeremy used to have. Finally, as she is about to leave the lake house Jeremy thanks Bonnie and she hugs him. Jeremy embraces her back and closes his eyes as he holds her. Jeremy and Bonnie pull apart and Jeremy smiles at her. Bonnie gets in the car and Jeremy closes the door for her.

Jeremy Bonnie and Shane looking for Silas.

In Down the Rabbit Hole, Bonnie, Jeremy and Shane arrive at the well where Shane claims Silas is. Massak claims that he will not go any farther and Shane gives him Silas' Tombstone, which is not actually needed to open Silas' tomb, just to pay Massak with. They proceed their journey into the well where Bonnie promises Jeremy that she won't let Shane raise Silas and she will kill him if he tries to hurt anyone. Bonnie begins a spell which "vacuums" up Jeremy's Hunter's Mark (meanwhile, another hunter of the Five, Galen Vaughn, has his own tattoo disappear as well). She successfully opens up the passageway, also causing a cave in, which causes Shane to break his leg. When he asks Bonnie and Jeremy to help him, they refuse, and advance into the passageway.

Bonnie's grandmother appear on the cave.

Suddenly, Sheila Bennett appears and tells her granddaughter that they have to raise Silas and feed him so that she can be brought back. Jeremy realizes that it isn't her Grams at all and tells her that it isn't real; that it is Silas and he is getting inside her head. Later, the two find Silas, frozen in a vampire state. Bonnie says that in order to get the Cure, Silas has to be fed their blood, as it is in his grip. That is when Vaughn appears and stabs Bonnie, where she falls onto the cave floor.

Silas kill Jeremy while Bonnie is dying.

Katherine Pierce suddenly arrives (disguised as Elena, who she attacked earlier) and saves Jeremy from Vaughn, who was about to kill him. "Elena" is actually revealed to be Katherine when she calls Jeremy a brat for insisting that she save Bonnie first before getting the Cure. Katherine slits Jeremy's wrist open and feeds him to Silas, who grabs Jeremy, giving Katherine an opening to grab the Cure, and with that, she takes off. Silas then snaps Jeremy's neck and Bonnie watches from the cavern floor, unable to do anything, as she is dying.

Bonnie and Jeremy hug

In The Walking Dead, Bonnie brings down the veil. When Jeremy and Bonnie see each other for the first time since he died he thanks her and they hug. Later as part of her plan, Bonnie tries to perform a spell to bring Jeremy back by using all the magic she knew (expression, dark magic and the spirits). The spell turns out to be too much to handle and she collapses on the floor. Bonnie wakes up and soon realizes she's dead and is now a ghost.

In Graduation, because Bonnie is a ghost in order to close the veil she has to wait for the full moon to draw power from it, leaving the ghosts with more time on earth. When the time comes, Bonnie is starting the process of closing the veil when Jeremy shows up telling her he needed to see her and that he wanted to be with her when it happened (not knowing she is also dead). When Bonnie tells him that the veil is almost back up, Jeremy walks closer to Bonnie saying he had a million things to say to her but now nothing seemed quite right then they share an intimate kiss as the veil gets closed. The veil is now closed but suddenly Jeremy starts breathing heavily and grabbing his chest (taking a few steps back from Bonnie), confused with what was happening to him. Bonnie

Beremy kiss

realizes that her spell to bring him back worked after all and Jeremy was alive. Jeremy runs towards Bonnie to hold her but when they touch he can't feel her. A tearful brokenhearted Jeremy discovers that Bonnie is dead. Bonnie tries to calm him down by saying that she'll be ok that they can still see each other and talk whenever they want because Jeremy can see ghosts then she asks him to keep her death a secret from her friends, Which leaves Bonnie's death in a question. She tells Jeremy that she will be okay and leaves with her grandmother.

Bonnie and Jeremy are first seen in town square texting Elena so they could keep up Bonnie's secret.

Bonnie and Jeremy having sex

In True Lies, Bonnie tells Jeremy about her father's death. She informs Jeremy that Silas is looking for a girl (Katerina Petrova) who looks like Elena Gilbert and says that they can't let him (Silas) have Katherine.

In For Whom the Bell Tolls, they are first seen in the boarding house when Jeremy catches Bonnie watching him while he's working out. Later they are seen, once again, in the boarding house when Jeremy tells Damon about Bonnie's death. At the end of the episode when the group joins in the woods for Bonnie's funeral, Jeremy speaks for her as she tells everyone that she's fine and that she's always there watching over them. At the end of the scene when all of the other couples are hugging and crying, Jeremy grabs Bonnie's hand, although they can't feel each other.

In Monster's Ball, Damon tells Jeremy his plan about how they can bring Bonnie back to life. Since to bring someone back someone else has to die, he says that they should take advantage the fact that Silas wants to die to be with his true love, Amara, so that Bonnie comes back. They have to work with Silas though to do that and Bonnie doesn't agree with the idea, but Jeremy tells Damon that she's fine with it.

In Death and the Maiden, Jeremy and Bonnie are very surprised to discover that Amara can see and feel Bonnie and after this they have the idea of Bonnie taking the place of Amara as the anchor. Qetsiyah makes Bonnie the new anchor and Bonnie comes back to life. Jeremy is happy to see her alive.

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In Dead Man on Campus, they are first seen on a bench on the Whitmore campus, making out. Later they are seen together at Bonnie's welcome party. At the end of the episode, Bonnie is seen in a motel room, lighting candles. Jeremy then comes in and they start to make out until she see's Jesse in the corner of the room. After Jesse passes through her, she is forced to tell Jeremy that she is the anchor and can feel every supernatural that has died pass through her. She then tells him that the consequences are worth it because they can be together and they have sex for the first time. 

In Home, Bonnie calls and reveals to Jeremy that there is no saving her as she is the anchor to the other side and once it goes, she goes. Bonnie says she wouldn't change anything about the time they spent together. Jeremy demands where she is and when she hangs up, he goes to find her. Jeremy doesn't get to say goodbye to her in person.

In I'll Remember, it has been about three months since Damon and Bonnie's death from the collapse on The Other Side. Jeremy is seen trying to get over Bonnie's death by hooking up with random girls his age.

Both Jeremy and Bonnie wishing they were together with friends beside each other for Christmas.

In Christmas Through Your Eyes, Jeremy is seen standing alone by a Christmas tree in the real world while Bonnie is standing in the square of her Prison World's version of Mystic Falls, in front of a Christmas tree she made herself. Jeremy whispers to the tree that he misses Bonnie while she whispers that she misses him and the rest of her friends and allies.

In The Day I Tried To Live, Kai and Jeremy tries to save Bonnie from commiting suicicde within the 1994 Prison World. While there, Kai is attacked and the spell falters. Later, Kai sends them back to the prison world. After she makes the realization to 'stay strong', words by her Grams, Bonnie decides she wants to live. In the last moments, Kai's spell allows Jeremy to interact with the prison world and ends up successfully saving her from suffocating from carbon monoxide gas. The two part ways also; both of them wishing to move on.

Dating Timeline

First Relationship:

  • Start Up: Masquerade (2x07)
  • Break Up: Ghost World (3x07)
    • Reason: Jeremy kissed Anna, and Bonnie couldn't deal with this and needed some time.

Second Relationship:

  • Start Up: Graduation (4x23)
  • Separated: Home (5x22)
    • Reason: Bonnie died, thus meaning that they didn't break up. Despite the fact that they're seperated, Jeremy still cares about Bonnie and according to a spoiler, Jeremy and Elena will try to bring her back.
  • Break Up: The Downward Spiral (6X16)
    • Reason: Bonnie came back from the Prison World as a different person. She wanted to explore who that person was on her own, but she still remained friends with Jeremy. Jeremy also wanted to go out on his own to hunt vampires, which is his true calling. The two remain distant friends being Bonnie pursues a romantic relationship with Enzo, in the future.





  • Before being together they both had a bad history in love life:
  • Bonnie once theorized that her ancestor Emily had a thing for Johnathan Gilbert, a likely precursor for their relationship.
  • Bonnie admits she loves him as seen in As I Lay Dying
  • They have both 'died' and came back to life.
  • Damon and Elena support them.
  • In a deleted scene from By the Light of the Moon, Jeremy confesses his feelings for Bonnie to Elena.
  • Jeremy once cheated on Bonnie by kissing Anna's ghost.
  • They broke up in Ghost World and got back together in Graduation.
  • Bonnie died while trying to bring Jeremy back from the dead.
  • Between Our Town and Graduation, we could see that Bonnie and Jeremy still had feelings for each other.
  • Bonnie brought him back to life three times: As I Lay Dying, Before Sunset and Graduation.
  • Bonnie and Jeremy are reunited in the episode Graduation after Bonnie brings Jeremy back to life.
    • Bonnie and Jeremy make love for the first time in the episode Dead Man on Campus.
    • Bonnie also loses her virginity to him in this episode.
  • Bonnie is older than Jeremy by two years.
    • But in reality, Kat Graham (who plays Bonnie) is 25 and Steven R. McQueen (who plays Jeremy) is 26.
  • Bonnie is Jeremy's third girlfriend, after Vicki and Anna and she is dead just like Vicki and Anna.
  • In the Season Five finale, Bonnie and Jeremy became separated because of The Other Side being destroyed.
  • In Stay, Bonnie encouraged Jeremy to move on with his life and be happy.
    • Jeremy decided to take Bonnie's advice and left town to pursue vampire hunting.
  • Bonnie broke up with Jeremy through his voice message in The Downward Spiral, telling him she's a different person and that she's not the same Bonnie he knew and that he probably wouldn't want to date her anymore.
  • Post-Prison World Bonnie is different from the Bonnie Jeremy possibly knew
  • Ironically, despite playing the character of Bonnie, Kat Graham is not a Beremy supporter.
    • Kat Graham wishes that Bonnie would explore her sexuality more.
  • They are currently distant friends being Bonnie is dating Enzo.


  • With Love, by Christina Grimmie.

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